Ultimate shoulder rides

Having had shoulder rides with both women I was in a relationship with and women who were my friends, I have to say my preference depends on whether I’m carrying or riding. Maybe my thought process here is strange, but I prefer carrying friends because I like the idea of a non-sexual yet intimate interaction with another woman, and I prefer riding on my wife in part because I’m close to her family so I’m actively turned on by the idea of using their daughter and sister as no more than a horse. I feel like those two feelings are contradictory, but so it goes sometimes.

I don’t get to ride or carry as much as I’d like to these days, so this is based on the last time I jumped on my wife’s shoulders in a swimming pool four years ago and an evening spent with a coworker five years older than me a decade ago.

The reason for my  question is that it seems that some people in USR find  riding/carrying  more  erotic  than others  here.

For myself, I have sat on the shoulders of men that I've been intimate with  and  been carried on the shoulders of some of them as well.
But fare more often I have  been  carried by  men I wouldn't normally consider being intimate with  and I am sometimes more attracted to  the men  who are riders than I am to most of the carriers I  or  they might be sitting on.

Also, some  USR  people    have conveyed that they  specifically  enjoy  the  sensation  of  shoulder riding such as the  motion,  the friction between the carrier's neck and the rider's genitalia  etc.  as well as the dominant/submissive aspect.

Please  note that I  do not see any right or wrong  in any of these feelings or opinions  among consenting adults.

I prefer a platonic relationship with the carrier; it could be with a friend or an acquaintance. I like when there’s friendly camaraderie too.
I often have to make my boundaries clear, but each carrier I’ve met has respected them. Occasionally I might engage in nonsexual forms of intimacy, like cuddling, but nothing beyond that.
I’m mainly interested in enjoying a nice ride on a pair of strong shoulders, along with the sensation of being high up and feeling weightless.

I’m confused as to what Audreyb did that made Fredrick upset?

JayRey8585:

It's never been about intimacy, though I know it is  for some others.
For me, it's much more about being served as a  woman. About  gentle conquest in having a man,  willing or  coerced  serving me with the strength of his body in the  capacity of an underling.

As for  frederik, his  retort was confusing at best and  I  believe  he was actually responding to a post on  a different subject.
I  honestly couldn't care less,  but I believe it was in regard  to the subject  of a carrier falling beneath a rider. He seems  rather  confused. 
However, I stand by my  reply  to him.

JayRey8585:

frederik is listed  being in  Germany.
As I said, I  don't  challenge  fetish/fantasy stories regardless of how silly they  are or how repetitive the theme.
But since you have read many of my accounts and remarks, you know  that I never claimed to have  more than a few shoulder riding experiences  each year  over the past 4 years since being invited to pursue it  as an  activity in itself.
I  usually restrict my  replies  to preferences ,my  limited experiences  and my feelings.  This week for example, I  haven't even had time for my handyman.

I've  always been  dominant  by  nature but I'm not  unique   in wanting men who  dedicate their  life to me, obey my  every  whim,
protect me , die  for me and  humble himself to me.
Almost all women  want that  whether they  admit it or  not.
The difference is  that  I admit I want it,  but I don't  really expect it.