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Without specific details, I'm curious if individual riders and carriers on USR are commonly intimate with the people they ride or carry or if the rider/carrier relationship is limited exclusively to riding and carrying respectively.
I normally keep my carriers and lovers separately and choose not to cross over . But on a few occasions, the line has become fuzzy.
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Dear Audreyb
Being extremely experienced as a carrier in shoulder riding I can tell you that is an obsoute red line anda NoGo having real sex with a female rider.
Quite often or even usually female riders are insisting on extended oral services all kind but real sex none of them ever wanted have.
Between a female rider and a carrier there is an extremely wide gap.
And so I am educating my female riding students that it should be .Real sex between female riders and carriers I think are an outstanding exception.
Males may hope for real sex with their riders but in general this will be nothing but a wet dream.
Even a young teenage girl who was riding a guy would instinctively ever accept real sex with her carrier.
The red line between a carrier and his rider is absolutely and mentally clear.
Inferior sex services like oral services are self-evident but not more.
The carriers also will stay beneath the rider.
I had quite a lot of very nice riders and with some I stayed almost in a real friendship but even in such a good relationship the barrier stayed that I was only her mount and carrier.
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Having had shoulder rides with both women I was in a relationship with and women who were my friends, I have to say my preference depends on whether I’m carrying or riding. Maybe my thought process here is strange, but I prefer carrying friends because I like the idea of a non-sexual yet intimate interaction with another woman, and I prefer riding on my wife in part because I’m close to her family so I’m actively turned on by the idea of using their daughter and sister as no more than a horse. I feel like those two feelings are contradictory, but so it goes sometimes.
I don’t get to ride or carry as much as I’d like to these days, so this is based on the last time I jumped on my wife’s shoulders in a swimming pool four years ago and an evening spent with a coworker five years older than me a decade ago.
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Audreyb wrote:
Without specific details, I'm curious if individual riders and carriers on USR are commonly intimate with the people they ride or carry or if the rider/carrier relationship is limited exclusively to riding and carrying respectively.
I normally keep my carriers and lovers separately and choose not to cross over . But on a few occasions, the line has become fuzzy.
After all my experiences there has been always an extremely wide distance between my riders and me as their carrier.
After my feelings they were regarding and treating me clearly as an inferior.
They were expecting from me mot more and not less that I obeyed to them and fulfilled their expectations.
I think an intimate relationship would be a very rare exception.
Between rider and carrier there seems to be a strict red line.
Even if most riders could be quite friendly in the end all of them were dominant.
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The reason for my question is that it seems that some people in USR find riding/carrying more erotic than others here.
For myself, I have sat on the shoulders of men that I've been intimate with and been carried on the shoulders of some of them as well.
But fare more often I have been carried by men I wouldn't normally consider being intimate with and I am sometimes more attracted to the men who are riders than I am to most of the carriers I or they might be sitting on.
Also, some USR people have conveyed that they specifically enjoy the sensation of shoulder riding such as the motion, the friction between the carrier's neck and the rider's genitalia etc. as well as the dominant/submissive aspect.
Please note that I do not see any right or wrong in any of these feelings or opinions among consenting adults.
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Mistress AudreyB
you are absolutely right what you say.
Excuse me please that I was on a vey wrong way.
I accept your statement completely and I think further discussions with you on this topic will be excluded .
I just have the very deep impression that you do not have any idea of human riding .
So I will no longer answer at any of your contributions.
I rather guess that ¥ou are nothing but a fake.
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I prefer a platonic relationship with the carrier; it could be with a friend or an acquaintance. I like when there’s friendly camaraderie too.
I often have to make my boundaries clear, but each carrier I’ve met has respected them. Occasionally I might engage in nonsexual forms of intimacy, like cuddling, but nothing beyond that.
I’m mainly interested in enjoying a nice ride on a pair of strong shoulders, along with the sensation of being high up and feeling weightless.
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frederik:
Your opinion of me is of no matter to me at all.
If it were not for your rudeness I wouldn't bother to respond.
However, I very much doubt that anyone who reads on this forum believes any of your poorly composed , semi incestuous sadomasochistic fantasies.
It's rare for me to challenge even the most unbelievable nonsense on this or any other public forum.
However, since you started this, I might as well add that I very much doubt that anyone with an active prefrontal cortex either believes or is entertained by your fictional accounts.
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I’m confused as to what Audreyb did that made Fredrick upset?
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Audreyb,
What do you enjoy about riding on a male carrier? I know you typically don’t want any intimacy from your human mount, so I’m just curious what feels good to you and what you specifically like.
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JayRey8585:
It's never been about intimacy, though I know it is for some others.
For me, it's much more about being served as a woman. About gentle conquest in having a man, willing or coerced serving me with the strength of his body in the capacity of an underling.
As for frederik, his retort was confusing at best and I believe he was actually responding to a post on a different subject.
I honestly couldn't care less, but I believe it was in regard to the subject of a carrier falling beneath a rider. He seems rather confused.
However, I stand by my reply to him.
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Audreyb,
It makes sense to me after many conversations as to why you like what you like and that’s awesome that you do!
As for Fred getting upset, I just read the thread about carriers falling and you said nothing wrong. What country does he live in that his stepmom and stepsisters trained him to be a human horse that teachers use during school? I believe that like I believe you have ocean front property in Arizona. Lol.
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JayRey8585:
frederik is listed being in Germany.
As I said, I don't challenge fetish/fantasy stories regardless of how silly they are or how repetitive the theme.
But since you have read many of my accounts and remarks, you know that I never claimed to have more than a few shoulder riding experiences each year over the past 4 years since being invited to pursue it as an activity in itself.
I usually restrict my replies to preferences ,my limited experiences and my feelings. This week for example, I haven't even had time for my handyman.
I've always been dominant by nature but I'm not unique in wanting men who dedicate their life to me, obey my every whim,
protect me , die for me and humble himself to me.
Almost all women want that whether they admit it or not.
The difference is that I admit I want it, but I don't really expect it.
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