Ultimate shoulder rides

I think, shoulder riding of an adult woman on an adult man in public places, such as street may be perfectly acceptable; not always and everywhere though. You have to be aware of the time and location that You choose. If You're about to do it near your home, You have to ask Yourself if You want your neighbours to see You do it. But that should be obvious.

In general, the more fun and easy going the neighbourhood is, the more acceptance you can expect. Especially holiday resorts and all those places where people hang out for fun and leisure are perfect; In western civilization this play between adults seems to be regarded as a boy-girl social activity with mild erotic overtones and it shouldn't raise any eybrows. Probably the biggest danger you will face by exposing Yourself this way is that people will think You and your partner are bofriend and girlfriend (Which is exactly why male/male sr can be rather problematic from social perspective!). The girl-girl shoulder riding is reagarded as wacky, humorous fun activity that girlfriends may do sometimes, and due to the perceived nature of woman's psychology, it is not ecessirily viewed as erotic.

The male-male shoulder riding on the other hand, MAY raise eyebrows if done in public. The only way of riding a male by another male, withour evoking gay associations is piggyback ride, like when a soldier is carrying his wounded comrade from the battle. I guess, piggyback has got to be the most effective and thus - most practical way to carry a human by another human. In shoulder riding, wrapping one's thights over the other person's neck is too overtly erotic to be exercised between straight men, IMHO. Unless it's done as an obvious case of slapstic humour.

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Actually a lot depends on HOW You are doing it. A casual shoulder ride, shoulder lift etc. may be only mildly or even not at all erotic, and perfectly acceptable even between total strangers or a parent an a child. But in case of a passionate endourance/performance shoulder riding, when it becomes obvious for anyone with eyes, that it is a serious thing, especially if any riding gear and/or riding accessories are involved, this shall be regarded as any other overt erotic and/or fetish activity. And You have to think for Yourselves as to if, when, and where You want to do it.

Last edited by Misiulo (2011-10-27 22:34:36)

i can say my own experience about other's reaction here.
two nights ago i was out with one of my friends, on the way back i pretended that i'm tired and cannot walk anymore (this trick always helps) and asked him to carry me. he gave me a piggy back ride and 2 minutes later he carried me on shoulder. it was about 1 at night a few ppl were still in the street (the place i live is not crowded). since my friend and i was laughing all the time ppl just thought we were drunk (though we were not) or we are having just some fun so i didnt see any bad reaction . one smiled one didnt pay attetion and one even laughed and said "yeahhhhhh".
so i think at niight it is much better because first there are not alot of ppl in street and second it is dark just a few ppl who are near can see it and third they think you are drunk and so never think it is a fetish activity.

I agree with Misiulo regarding MOM in public,being a naturally shy person.I think that people would think it most weird seeing a middle-aged man being carried down a street by another.When I had my first series of rides some weeks ago,a few took place in the middle of a village,albeit at night time,and I was dreading anyone coming out of their front door!On the other hand,I was much happier on an unlit side road(although this road turned out to be a popular place for the locals to walk their dogs!!!)I also think that beach or sea would be more acceptable.

vibha1966 wrote:

hello,

  Many times i saw in marrage,in the fair etc.local public gave the shoulder riding of his children......
  But rarely i never saw shoulder riding specialy wom in these are ocasions.
  Really i like ride on shoulders when there is big crowed ....i love wom

I sure wish I were near you I would love carrying you.