Ultimate shoulder rides

Hey dude, you know really the best thing is to choose your girlfriend very carefully, know them very, very well and then slowly bring them into shoulder riding.  I had a wonderful series of experiences with two different girlfriends that knew nothing about shoulder riding, and it just takes time man; it's not an overnight thing.  I think you'll find that women mostly haven't any idea if they like riding or not, so just talk to women man, you don't have to go over to the man/man side out of desperation  

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Well it was more of a time thing, and my other desires kind of led the women to want to ride me (And no, I've never ridden anyone, I don't want any woman to be in charge of me   )  I would always pick them up and hold them, and I think 99% of women love to be picked up and held, and after a while I'd ask them things like "Do you like it when I hold you like this? and so on....after a while, I'd start to slip an arm between their legs, press up against their clit so I could guage their sensitivity to pressure, and when they would react right, then I knew they'd love to ride on shoulders.  I think the first time I did it to one of them was during foreplay, and I stood her up on the bed, faced her away from me, and very discreetly put some oils over my shoulders and neck, rubbed it between her legs, and then started kissing her legs, her bum, her female organ and clit, then I just slipped my head between her legs and stood up.  She didn't know what to think at first and was really scared, but I just said "relax, I'm going to show you something new tonight".  Well I started to caress her legs, guided her to rub her female organ against my neck, and before you knew it she was almost screaming out in pleasure, and a bit later actually came   You don't have to be suave (I'm nowhere near suave!) and you don't have to be sneaky, you just have to be willing to invest the time into the woman, find out what she likes, and then go from there

Sure thing - I think that's where most men would go wrong with any kind of sexual desire, if you push or seem over excited, which woman is going to go along with you?  Nah, most will get freaked out by a crazy acting guy, so it's best to be very slow, gentle, and treat your woman very kindly, and they will relax and open themselves up to you