Ultimate shoulder rides

Hi Sir.

I am also a big fetish or liking for getting ridden on all 4s.
i have been horse for many times before, but not for much longer time...hope i shd get after my marriage.
the heaviest girl i had on my back was of 70 kg...and after 2min of riding, my back also started paining, and she dismounted me.
i dont know how many 160 lbs, are into Kg.

wht i wud recommend u is - I thnk, probably wht hurt most in riding all 4s is knee pains...but i thnk, as u r not getting it, you must be using knee pads, as used by many.

For Back pain - I thnk sir.,....wht we want is to be a horse for some heavy lady...and as u r saying despite of the pain, you dont want to leave her...and u shudn't also...as by continously gng to her,..she will one day accept u as her horse only..

and while giving riding...horse has to suffer the weight of the rider....and that is wht we want...pain comes in this....but i thnk..the pleasure of being getting ridden shd overcome this.

another thing is that ...u shd start doing some stretching exercies, and small weight lifting exercises in mornings...so tht the body start getting used to weights..
and i thnk...its only the practise of being horse..which will one day get u relief of the pain..

if u will go to doctor...he will obv.. say to u..dont carry any weight on ur body, and  if u tell him, tat u become horse every week-end..he will probably laugh..

one more advise...when ever ur back pains...just remember the time. when the lady was riding u r back...and feel , that her weight is still on you..
it happens sometime., tht when we carry heavy weight..on our back..the weight feeling sometimes continues for weeks...
well i personally love this feeling..

Pain wil come over..by pleasure...just be her horse..and one day. there wil be no pain..

after all, a horse shd bear all the weight of the rider....we r the beast of burden

svipony wrote:

Hi,

This is my first post in this wonderful forum.

I have a doubt that I would like to share with the people here.

I am nearly 50 years old and as many people here I had not many opportunities to practice ponyplay.

I paricularly like being ridden on all4s.

In the past I've been ridden a little bit by some Gfs, but as the present one do not like it, I decided to turn to a professional Domme and I visited her twice in 10 days.

My body is quite thin and not muscolar, I am 5'7" 135 lbs.

The Domme was a tall wonderful girl, around 160 lbs.

We did quite a lot of ponyplay with me on all4s and I was wondering if this can damage my back.

I am worried because after the last session it took me 10 days before to get rid of back pain.

My past riders were lighter (max 120 lbs) and were not riding me for long time, as the Domme did.

I also noticed that my back was sinking quite a lot under her weight.

I would not like to change Domme because we had a wonderful feeling and the sensation of her weight on my back was beautiful, much nicer than the one I felt with lighter riders.

But, on the same time, I was very sore after the session.

Before asking to a doctor (not a easy thing to do...) I was wondering if the people here can give me advice.

Many Thanks!

Gianni

Hi-160lbs is 72.7 kg-this is far to heavy a weight for a horse of 130lbs-as well as having this large weight on your back for long periods-the damage to your back will be considerable.
Solution: !. exercise to strengthen your back muscles-this wlii time 3/4 months.
             2.eat more and increase body weight-say 155lbs-the same time but it will be worth it.

Hi, svipony


As was already said, your pain may be either muscular or be originated in the backbone ... The only way to know is to have a scanner analysis done ... If this shows that your backbone is straight, and the discs are correct, then you will just need to exercise your back muscles and you'll soon be a great pony ..

Otherwise, you'd better be prepared to have problems soon if you keep  ponyplaying in the same way ! If your back is damaged in the rump zone, you could consider using a saddle, which will split your rider's weight on the whole length of your back, thus decreasing the agression on your L4/L5 vertebrae and discs .... But, well ... be very careful if you ALREADY have back problems !!! Maybe even consider another fetish

Hi Sir..
I am so jealous of you, that ur being a pony for such a beautiful and heavy lady..of 70 kg..i thnk ths is the weight i am looking out for my rider as well.
in the past, i have been horse on all 4s, but the ride have never lasted for more than a minute even, as here in India, there are no role-plays sessions at all, and more-over, i have never got an oppurtunity to be a horse for some 70 kg girl...wow..its a dream for me..
hope i shd get a wife of more than 70 kg...and she can ride me whole life..

but i thnk sir..despite all the pains..and sufferings...the main part is that ,,,, u have done,....wht u wanted to...that is becoming a horse for a 70 kg women..and tht too for quite some time.....i thnk...this is one of the most desirable things in life...and now ur life is complete by doing this.....

don't worry on the pain part,....and next time when u just visit her....my advise to you is - when u go on all 4s,,,this time...do it blind-foldedly..as i thnk, when u will not be able to see anything..ard....first thing will be ..she will be totally controlling...and ur activities...and u will be as perfect as a horse for her...
and secondly...when u will be blind-folded,,,,,the only thing..u will experience will be her..weight...
and just concentrate on her instructions..and weight..will let u forgot all ur pains...

well, i have never tried this,,,but will do so...when i got on opp....

wishes to u sir...for being so lucky..to be a horse for such a gr8 lady...

svipony wrote:

Thank you very much for your responses.
Some more details: The domme is  around 70 - 72 kg and for the knee pains I avoided it with knee pads.
Hovever after the first session the knees were a bit bruised from the weight and the friction between the skin and the pad. For the second session I inserted  a layer of cotton wool padding between the skin and the pad. It worked!

Both session were 2 hours long, I wanted to do things without hurry.
Of course I was not ridden on all 4s for 2 hours: it was a delicious mix of talk, all4s, shoulderriding and chestsitting.
Shoulderriding was very good: I was afraid that I was not able to lift her but, starting with me sat on the sofa, I managed to lift her, carry her around the room several times, sit back with her on top and lift her again. After a while I had to give up because my legs were trembling for the effort needed.
The first session was hard but bearable: the back pain was mainly due to the back muscles: they were obviously not used to bear such a heavy rider. They were hurting for some days and in some way it was nice: as Trigger wisely pointed out “.just remember the time. when the lady was riding u r back...and feel , that her weight is still on you..”

I was so happy of the session that I booked another one a week later.
Maybe it was too early and my back was still not completely recovered from the previous one. The second session was similar to the first, the main difference was that I decided to push a bit further the all4s riding. Towards the end of the session I asked her to ride me to collapse. So she did. I started to go in circle in the room and very soon I was panting like a steam train. Sweat was all over me but I kept going. When I was nearly spent I stopped the walk. She remained on top, sat in the centre of my back which is the most comfortable position for her (and also the way I like the most). I relaxed a bit my back muscle and this led my spine to bend even more under her. This is probably the dangerous part because the extra bending puts a higher compression on the vertabrae disks. But I had no pain then, after a while I straighten my back (a little bit, she was so heavy) and started to walk again with her on top. Some minutes later, my arms collapsed and the ride finished.

While I was putting my dresses on , I felt that my whole body was trembling. It was a bit difficult even to walk in a straight line, but I managed to go back home. This time the muscles hurted for longer, around ten days had to go before most of the fatigue symptoms finished.
And now, after nearly a month, I am ok but I feel that my back sometimes feel tired.
I don’t think that may spine was damaged, but I probably went very near to that.
This is the reason why I wanted to share with the people here this episode, maybe someone has experienced something similar, or maybe there is a doctor and can suggest how to deal  with the whole thing.
I really would like to go back for another session, but I don’t want to end up like the graet Danny WP having to take pain killers.
BTW, that Domme really is a beauty and with her I fulfilled completely my fetish.
In the past, as I have already said, I was ridden by other girls between 48 and 58 kg. It was nice, but nothing in comparison to this 70 kg beauty. I really felt my back sinking  under her weight and my body/brain was totally involved in giving her a nice ride.
Often, the reality is not as nice as our fetish fantasy. In this case, the reality was wonderful.

Thanks again for your attention.

Gianni

Hi Svipony.....
not heard from you sir....about anything....afterwards

do u still go for sessions with the same domme.

waiting to hear from u sir.

rgds

trigger.

svipony wrote:

Thank you very much for your responses.
Some more details: The domme is  around 70 - 72 kg and for the knee pains I avoided it with knee pads.
Hovever after the first session the knees were a bit bruised from the weight and the friction between the skin and the pad. For the second session I inserted  a layer of cotton wool padding between the skin and the pad. It worked!

Both session were 2 hours long, I wanted to do things without hurry.
Of course I was not ridden on all 4s for 2 hours: it was a delicious mix of talk, all4s, shoulderriding and chestsitting.
Shoulderriding was very good: I was afraid that I was not able to lift her but, starting with me sat on the sofa, I managed to lift her, carry her around the room several times, sit back with her on top and lift her again. After a while I had to give up because my legs were trembling for the effort needed.
The first session was hard but bearable: the back pain was mainly due to the back muscles: they were obviously not used to bear such a heavy rider. They were hurting for some days and in some way it was nice: as Trigger wisely pointed out “.just remember the time. when the lady was riding u r back...and feel , that her weight is still on you..”

I was so happy of the session that I booked another one a week later.
Maybe it was too early and my back was still not completely recovered from the previous one. The second session was similar to the first, the main difference was that I decided to push a bit further the all4s riding. Towards the end of the session I asked her to ride me to collapse. So she did. I started to go in circle in the room and very soon I was panting like a steam train. Sweat was all over me but I kept going. When I was nearly spent I stopped the walk. She remained on top, sat in the centre of my back which is the most comfortable position for her (and also the way I like the most). I relaxed a bit my back muscle and this led my spine to bend even more under her. This is probably the dangerous part because the extra bending puts a higher compression on the vertabrae disks. But I had no pain then, after a while I straighten my back (a little bit, she was so heavy) and started to walk again with her on top. Some minutes later, my arms collapsed and the ride finished.

While I was putting my dresses on , I felt that my whole body was trembling. It was a bit difficult even to walk in a straight line, but I managed to go back home. This time the muscles hurted for longer, around ten days had to go before most of the fatigue symptoms finished.
And now, after nearly a month, I am ok but I feel that my back sometimes feel tired.
I don’t think that may spine was damaged, but I probably went very near to that.
This is the reason why I wanted to share with the people here this episode, maybe someone has experienced something similar, or maybe there is a doctor and can suggest how to deal  with the whole thing.
I really would like to go back for another session, but I don’t want to end up like the graet Danny WP having to take pain killers.
BTW, that Domme really is a beauty and with her I fulfilled completely my fetish.
In the past, as I have already said, I was ridden by other girls between 48 and 58 kg. It was nice, but nothing in comparison to this 70 kg beauty. I really felt my back sinking  under her weight and my body/brain was totally involved in giving her a nice ride.
Often, the reality is not as nice as our fetish fantasy. In this case, the reality was wonderful.

Thanks again for your attention.

Gianni

Hi!

I went to the domme one more time and the session lasted 4 hours.

Due to the previous experience, I acted very carefully and I took the decision of not to push myself over my limits.

It was a nice session with a mix of all4s, shoulderrides, trampling and chatting. Mostly chatting: she has such a beautiful soul.

In the following days my back was ok.

Perhaps I was too careful!

I am willing to go again but at the moment I am a bit short of money, therefore I have to wait.

But as soon as I will go again, this community will be the first to be informed.

Thank you for your attention.

Gianni

trigger wrote:

Hi Svipony.....
not heard from you sir....about anything....afterwards

do u still go for sessions with the same domme.

waiting to hear from u sir.

rgds

trigger.

svipony wrote:

Thank you very much for your responses.
Some more details: The domme is  around 70 - 72 kg and for the knee pains I avoided it with knee pads.
Hovever after the first session the knees were a bit bruised from the weight and the friction between the skin and the pad. For the second session I inserted  a layer of cotton wool padding between the skin and the pad. It worked!

Both session were 2 hours long, I wanted to do things without hurry.
Of course I was not ridden on all 4s for 2 hours: it was a delicious mix of talk, all4s, shoulderriding and chestsitting.
Shoulderriding was very good: I was afraid that I was not able to lift her but, starting with me sat on the sofa, I managed to lift her, carry her around the room several times, sit back with her on top and lift her again. After a while I had to give up because my legs were trembling for the effort needed.
The first session was hard but bearable: the back pain was mainly due to the back muscles: they were obviously not used to bear such a heavy rider. They were hurting for some days and in some way it was nice: as Trigger wisely pointed out “.just remember the time. when the lady was riding u r back...and feel , that her weight is still on you..”

I was so happy of the session that I booked another one a week later.
Maybe it was too early and my back was still not completely recovered from the previous one. The second session was similar to the first, the main difference was that I decided to push a bit further the all4s riding. Towards the end of the session I asked her to ride me to collapse. So she did. I started to go in circle in the room and very soon I was panting like a steam train. Sweat was all over me but I kept going. When I was nearly spent I stopped the walk. She remained on top, sat in the centre of my back which is the most comfortable position for her (and also the way I like the most). I relaxed a bit my back muscle and this led my spine to bend even more under her. This is probably the dangerous part because the extra bending puts a higher compression on the vertabrae disks. But I had no pain then, after a while I straighten my back (a little bit, she was so heavy) and started to walk again with her on top. Some minutes later, my arms collapsed and the ride finished.

While I was putting my dresses on , I felt that my whole body was trembling. It was a bit difficult even to walk in a straight line, but I managed to go back home. This time the muscles hurted for longer, around ten days had to go before most of the fatigue symptoms finished.
And now, after nearly a month, I am ok but I feel that my back sometimes feel tired.
I don’t think that may spine was damaged, but I probably went very near to that.
This is the reason why I wanted to share with the people here this episode, maybe someone has experienced something similar, or maybe there is a doctor and can suggest how to deal  with the whole thing.
I really would like to go back for another session, but I don’t want to end up like the graet Danny WP having to take pain killers.
BTW, that Domme really is a beauty and with her I fulfilled completely my fetish.
In the past, as I have already said, I was ridden by other girls between 48 and 58 kg. It was nice, but nothing in comparison to this 70 kg beauty. I really felt my back sinking  under her weight and my body/brain was totally involved in giving her a nice ride.
Often, the reality is not as nice as our fetish fantasy. In this case, the reality was wonderful.

Thanks again for your attention.

Gianni

Human beings weren't designed even to stand up and walk around on two legs let alone carry other people on their shoulders. The human spine has little pads between each of the backbones and these shrink with age. If you put a lot of pressure on the spine then the pads (which are cartridge) get squashed out and touch the nerves in the back and that's what causes the pain. Ideally, only young guys should act as 'ponies.' If you're an older guy and like to give rides then you need to have kept yourself fit by doing exercises/manual work. A couple of years ago I was given a shoulder-ride by a contractor in his hotel room (at the time he was working in The Square, Bournemouth, Dorset, England) and he was a big guy and really strong - the ideal sub. That's the kind of 'pony' to pick for your rides. An alternative for the older guy who likes to give rides/be rode - is to sit on a settee, say, and let the rider sit on your shoulders and hump you gently. But even doing that can cause spine damage (compression of the spine).