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From what i see,i doubt if there are more than 2-3 active female members.
It's sad,we have around 3000 members and 99.9% are males.
Any logical explanation for this? Are girls not interested at all,are they just way too shy to write or do they feell that joining and participating in this community is only a waste of time?
I can't understand their lack of interest,what do you think,friends?
Is there anything we could do to encourage them to participate more?
nikolas
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Hi Nikolas,
I will try to give you an example about girls and shoulderriding..This comming summer will be 12 long years since ,my Vaggelli girls..It all started,as I used to babysit for two girls growing up in the neighbourhood..I actually got them involved in shoulder rides..Stacy and Donna..They also had relatives and friends,and they would ride two very young boy's shoulders,in the pool,using them for rides and chicken fights..These two boy's at the time were around 13 and 11 years of age..Yet,it is safe to say that both these boys had well over 100 different girls ride their shoulders..This is safe bet..Donna was a lifeguard,and in college,and many girls from her school would ride these boy's shoulders..Her pool was public,but permitted shoulder rides,as long as she was working..For me,this was fantasy..It was nothing more than sexual(as almost all shoulder rides are for me)yet,the girls riding these boy's shoulders..I dought it was sexual for any (or most)of them..It was more fun and dominant for them..Girls ride shoulders for fun,curiousity,to be seen also I guess..for me..It is nothing more than pleasure and art..Yet..I hate women on women/girls on girls..Still,always will remember being at the beach around 11 years old,watching two 40 year old women chicken fighting on two boys who were 13,and one of them had a mom on son..From that moment forward,I was a (only female on male though)shoulder ride fan..To this day,it is still the greatest shoulder ride that I have ever witnessed..Maybe it is cause it was my first real experience..I really dought we have any females on this board..It does not affect me in any way..It would be nice though if we did..Well,Nikolas,I hope that clears that up:)..
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Are females the sexless sex? It can appear that way. Yet in Muslim countries most young females are circumcised (to quote reports): 'To control their rampant and uncontrollable ('you-know-what') urges.' I've yet to meet a female with such urges - but you never know! Saying that, a tiny number of females definately seem to enjoy 'male' activities like shoulder-riding and wrestling. If you take a look at craigslist for your area and scan the 'casual encounters' page you'll see 99.9% of the advertisers are male. The fact is that very few females are interested in indulging in what might be described as 'carnal' activities and this includes horseplay such as shoulder-riding. Women have many uses including giving birth to the next generation but, to do that, they need to be fecundated by us guys. They allow us to do that - indeed actively encourage us - because they love children. We get what we want in return for giving them what they want. But that doesn't include letting us guys give them shoulder-rides... unless we pay them, of course!
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I'm here and I am all female! xx
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... oh, yes! I'm passionate about passion! My shoulders are your saddle to ride any day of the week!
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I am ready and willing
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I guess I haven't really been active and also as my preference is to carry, I don't qualify ![]()
It's probably been said many times here, but go to more festivals and concerts and go up 'near the front' and offer nicely for a girl to sit up on your shoulders. (Don't let on its a fetish for you straight away) I've had a guy offer me to sit on his shoulders at a festival and while I wasn't aroused (even if there was the potential, there's a lot going on around you at an event like that), I was definitely happy to be up high.
I'd say that many women might not let themselves feel (or even think of feeling) a passion like this outside of messing about with someone we are already with, and often we aren't wired to think of sexual play, even something non threatening and pleasurable like getting a ride, as much as men are. There are exceptions to that of course.
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An interesting and all too rare insight into what at least one female thinks about the subject of shoulder riding and carrying from wildfiregirl.
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