Ultimate shoulder rides

hey..u have shifted to delhi..
can we plan some rides.

lovetoride wrote:

I had the same doubt as many of us regarding the reaction of the person,
if I would ask for a ride and so I organized a pole around 10 years back.

The question was
“What was the reaction of your girlfriend when you asked for a shoulder ride on her for the first time?”

The maximum answer was that she was surprised by this strange demand, but agreed.

Though some did agree that their girlfriend plainly refused the request or demand.
And some were not surprised and gave ride and some were neither surprised by this demand nor they agreed to give ride.

I know that most of the members here are interested to know about the vice-versa situation, but this is the only experience I have and the only one I wish to have.

And as my friend Trigger rightly pointed out, it is way easy to make somebody sit on you than to sit on them and make them move!

Any comments most welcome.

I tend to believe that obtaining a SR is easier when it follows a basic logic : Either a STRONG person proposes a ride to a weaker one .. Or a WEAKER person requests a ride from a STRONGER one. And this works even better if the weaker one is a Female, as Females usually easily accept, or even take advantage of, their physical "weakness".
Now, a male requesting a ride from a Female certainly is the most difficult scenario ...

Thanks Equidum for your comments because I really love to read what you write.
Whether I agree with it or not is a secondary issue.

I totally agree with your 2nd and 3rd line.

You say, obtaining a SR is easier when it follows a basic logic :
Either a STRONG person proposes a ride to a weaker one .. Or a WEAKER person requests a ride from a STRONGER one.
But I think that the basic logic is that
either a person who ‘loves to give ride’ proposes a ride to a person who ‘loves to ride’ or
a person who ‘loves to ride’ requests a person who ‘loves to give ride’.
And this works even better if the two are of opposite sex!

If you did not like this sentence much, please replace the word ‘loves to give ride’ with ‘is a masochist’ and ‘loves to ride’ with ‘is a sadist’.
Perhaps you may agree with me more now, since this matches ‘your perception of the world’ more.

Here I would also like to add that the extra passion of one of them would compensate for the lack of interest of the other to some extent.
Hope you understand what I mean to say by this sentence.

Your response is most welcome.

Cool. I can say my own experience:

The most reaction I got from normal guys (not ponies or slaves) was a good reaction and it leaded to a good shoulder ride or a piggyback ride.
However, the fact behind it was mostly the feeling. I mostly asked guys who were either my boyfriend or were in love with me. In both cases they wanted to make me happy or impress me. So even if they really didn't like the idea, they always accepted. So I can say I kindda used (or better misused) their feelings. 90% of the times I asked a guy to carry me, they accepted. It even worked with dominant guys. The rest 10% didn't have a bad reaction but just tried to take it as a joke but not a serious request.
However, I never asked any girl to carry me because my weapon was always the feelings of a guy for me which does not exist in the same sex. So I don't know how they would really react if I ask them to do so.
And I guess the most difficult one is lovetoride situation. A guy asks a girl to carry him! I wouldn't dare if I were you because when I imagine: if a guy asks me to do that, I guess I would slap on his face
However, good job lovetoride

Thanks Missp for your comments.

You are right.
Only a person who has feelings for you would give you a ride (if he is not a pony or masochist).
So even I have asked only to girls who have feelings for me.

And you are right, it worked even on dominant girls (in my case my ex-girlfriend).
And I am sure that even some of my friends (girls) would have given me rides in school and college
and some would have not, taking it as a joke as you rightly mentioned in your experience,
but unfortunately I did not get such favorable conditions.

I never asked any boy because I never really wanted to ride a male,
except if he is really interested to give me ride.
However I have really ridden some males at very young age.

I didn’t quite get your point of ‘slapping a guy’.
Do you mean that you would slap your friend or boyfriend too?
Because I don’t think any of my female friends would slap me for asking a ride.

If you are talking about stranger, then yes, it’s quite obvious.
On the first place I can’t even think of asking an unknown girl for a ride.

And thank you especially for the appreciation!

I completely understood your point Missp.
Thanks again for wishing me luck!

@checkmateguy

I totally agree with you, Checkmateguy ! I also believe that the world is split in a 50/50 way as regards subs and doms, or whatever term is the most relevant ... Probably 80% in each category are just mildly sub or dom, sometimes hardly aware of their true orientation, which actually shows up in just a limited number of domains, like SR for instance, or during sexual intercourse ... But indeed it would be great if we could KNOW what we are, and what others are, so that marriages for instance have a better chance to be successful. Is that so difficult for 21st century science ?? I doubt it.

In my experience and looking at requests by people on contact sites (e.g. craigslist), the majority of people seem to be submissive/passive; i.e. they prefer to be the passive partner in a relationship. In this respect, one amusing example (if that is the right word!) which you can see in everyday life is the bullied husband (who is usually an older guy) of a dominant and somewhat aggressive wife. You can see these couples in supermarkets where the wife in the partnership will say something to her husband such as: 'Go and fetch that NOW!' Or 'For goodness sake, you stupid man, put the (supermarket) basket in the rack - over THERE!' She will point out where he has to or should put the empty basket and he, in response, will meekly or quickly trot over to where he has to put the empty basket (much like a naughty little boy who has been told off by his mother). Observers (of human nature) like me tend to feel sorry for these kinds of guys yet they are perfectly happy about being bossed around by their dominant parners - so what can one say?

In the context of shoulder riding and in relation to those who prefer to carry and those who prefer to ride, another common misconception is that submissive/passive people are weak. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have known and see many people who could be described as submissive/passive and they have invariably been amazingly tough. Indeed, what makes them stand out is their toughness and stamina. Saying that, if a person is submissive/passive and they are enjoying what a dominant person is making them do, then they will not only willingly consent to what is happening but want it to continue so that they can fully enjoy the experience. Oddly, weirdly, amazingly, the biggest problem that submissive/passive people have is finding dominant people who will dominate them to the degree that they are seeking. Some like it mild and titillating whereas at the other extreme some like it strong and sadistic. The latter may (and probably would) appeal to missp!) Get down boy and let her ride you!