Ultimate shoulder rides

I wonder if there are so few lady riders in this forum.
I would like to learn what they think about.
Here in Germany and in Europe I met quite a few ladies or girls who were quite expercienced in horseback-riding and who were quite open to a shoulder-ride on a man just by replacing their horse to a human being.

Well dearest Riding blonde, there is abiog difference between riding on a horse back and a shoulder ride.
Being quite often used for rides by girls or ladies, I always preferred quite normal riding gear because this gives to the whole action a quite normal level. Ladies and girls who were riding me mostly preferred riding gear as well because it was just more comfortable to them than any other dress.
Well trained female riders always wanted to have a ride with a good speed and for a reasonable long time quite similar like a normal ride.
With a 5-minutes -ride none of them ever was content.

It seems to me that here are not so many female riders who are interested in sporty shoulder rides just alike on a horse.
But after all my experiences this is best way to train riding skills and I knew ladies who were practising extreme dressage ride and who loved to do shoulder rides just for enforcing their riding skills.
There is no way for a rider to enforce her feeling of balance and help to her horse because on a the shoulders of a human being all orders of a rider have to be given much softer than on any horse.

I think most women and girls get stimulated after a certain time of riding because if they sit correctly for guarding their balance, they have to sit on the neck and not on the shoulders.
By sitting with their crack and almost the whole of their weight they have of course a quite stimulating sitting position which is almost extremely stimulating every woman or girl.
Some ladies and girls show quite open that they get stimulated and some try to cache but I think it is quite natural that a woman gets stimulated.
I was once participating at a dressage course and as usual I was the only male among ladies and girls.
Every day we had hours and hours of different riding lessons and I was doing quite well and made very good progress but some ladies had their bis problems and when I was watching in the evening some of them in closed riding arena during their training I could see the mistakes they made and to a quite nice lady of about 25 years who was extremely ambitious and failed , I was just saying, if I were her stallion I would not follow her orders as well because she was making a lot of mistakes.
She was already quite angry and told me that if she would ride on me, she would rule and handle me like a slave.
I had to laugh and so the other ladies who always felt a little bit awkward because I was the only man there were challenging me and said: Lets make a bet. If you are even able to carry her for at least 30 minutes like a stallion and if you will resist to her orders, you will get 500 Dollars.
If you loose , you will have to pay 500 Dollars.
For the bunch of ladies this was a real amusing thing and as they told me that I was just talking big, I accepted this special challenge.
The riding instructor which was a quite elegant and very good looking lady of about 40 years was backing that bunch of ladies and said to me: "If you will loose the bet, you will not only have to pay those 500 Dollars, but you will get a ride by me and every other lady here and you will have to clean daily all our boots and be our servant."
Having accepted and beeing accused that I was nothing talking big, I finally accepted and prepared myself to tat special lesson.
The lady instructor was a quite welll-built and sturdy lady, not at all fat, but very well built and so I feared if I would have to get a ride under her.
But as I was talking that way, I was unable to duck out.
Already that young challenging lady of 25 was a well built lady but definetly not that heavy as that lady instructor who was also quite tall.
Well, the ladies and the instructor were planning 10 exercises during the ride on me and I could show how I was able to resist to my rider.
First of all, she straddled on my neck and not on my shoulders and so I felt her whole weight on my neck and she took my neck quite deep into her crotch and my neck quite firm between her muscled thighs.
Apart from her weight I had to carry now I had a quite strantge feeling to feel her tough thighs around m yneck keeping my neck alomst like a vice.
It was not quite hard for me to carry her because she was a quite good rider and she adopted very well to my rhythm.
From outside on eof the ladies told her a task and then she had to make me do it as if she would sit on a horse.
The first few times I was able to resist and so I won the first few tasks but the she took my neck that hard between her thighs that I believed that she was about to break my neck.
So I lost finally and she won.
It took her some time to find how to handle and me and as she had found out, there was no chance for me.

Thank you for the compliment but I was not fishing for.
But indeed I seemed to be a real suitable victim for women and girls as long as I can remember.
I do not know why but I think I was probably attracting female dominance.

The ride under that challenging lady was extremely exhausting to me because she rode on me half an hour in the riding arena covered with sand and so every step with her weight on my neck became more an more painful to me.
For her, an I think she some more than 60 kgs it was quite a pleasure because she had only to keep me as deep as possible between her thighs and to sit fine and keep balance.
She was even teasing and mocking at me and that made me quite angry but there was no chance at all to resist to the vice like grip of her muscled thighs around my neck and she knew how to force me by squeezing my neck between her thighs so that I feared she could break my neck like a small bone of a chicken.
Never before in my life I found out that a woman can be so strong with her thighs.

Well, I lost my bet and this was great triumph for alle the ladies and all of them called me a loser and a  let down.
The elder lady who worked as a riding instructor was smiling with a deep and wicked smile in her quite beautiful face and she told me that the next ride I would get by her so that I would learn all secrets of dressage and she was tall, sturdy and well-built.
But that night I was nothing but flat and exhausted and I felt very bad because the ladies and girls had their triumph.
In acertain way it was also my own fault because I felt too secure because the first 4 tasks I won because I could resist clearly aginst the rider on my neck.
But she finally found out how to tackle with me and the next task I had no choice and she won.
It was a narrow competition but finally she was better because sehe was indeed a real good dressage rider and women usually are better dressage riders than men because they are not that aggressive as men and because they are more patient and so she found my weak point and won.

I will tell you more about my experience and my experiences with the other riders as soon as I can.
But I can tell you already now that the ride under the lady instructor was the hardest ride I every got under a lady. She was extremely dominant and completele ruthless and she wanted to demonstrate to all the other ladies how a dominant woman can handle a little male under her weight.