Ultimate shoulder rides

if u have her no..or on Fb...say to her again..that i liked what u said, and can try for rides.

NY male wrote:

Today was a great day for me to give a shoulder ride and I missed it. This is what happened: being a person of Indian origin, I attended the India Independence Day Parade in New York city today Sunday. We were a group of 4 people, and made friends with another group of four. The parade was delayed by more than 90 minutes, so we had time to interact and get to know each other.

Then after the parade, we went out together, had a late lunch and after leaving the restaurant, and as were walking towards the subway, this girl who was part of the group we had met earlier, leaned on me, placed her arm on my shoulder and actually said she was so tired, and literally asked me to carry her on my shoulders, but then I freaked out inside. Instead of saying yes, I hesitated, and I guess she took that as a no. and by the time I composed myself, the chance had slipped by.

So there was a nice chance today to possibly give a shoulder ride to a beautiful girl (she also was of Indian origin, around 26 yrs of age) wearing skinny jeans and a t-shirt, with beautiful light brown eyes and long black hair, and I lost it.

So my advise to others is THINK ON YOUR FEET and be quick if such a chance presents itself to you. I sure will, if it happens again.

yes great..
I think to found someone, who is equally interested in riding like you , to give her rides, and to keep it going for life, is Great Luck and very hard to get.
I think, NY male is in process of finding someone..hopefully.

I am still looking for some girl who is equally int in riding me - The Never Ending search.

Wildfiregirl wrote:

Trigger.,I haver a better idea, if he has her phone no or email, invite her somewhere public again first and then say, mysteriously, You asked for something last time - and take her up on your shoulders. That will give her a thrill, but is also fine etiquette and won't spook her.

NY Male, you were so close! But you can get that again . Here are some pointers -

If you aren't shy revealing your fantasy, ask her directly about the opportunity you missed last time and you would be obliged to make it up to her.

On the other hand, if you are shy, try this ..

1. Ask her out somewhere. Make her do some activities deliberately that in some way it puts her legs to pain/stress and make her feel so tired (e.g. take her for a long walk, take flight of stairs as a bet, etc) .,. eventually high chances are that she might give up & ask for one again and you know what to do this time! Go for it!

2. Also you could try this (In my personal experience, I tried this once & I've succeeded with this!) Make her sit comfortably over a high place (e.g. a parapet wall, a tall chair or a tree) and stand/loiter close to her in such a way that your shoulders is close enough to her legs and your head is on her waist level. There is a VERY HIGH chance that this girl might playfully (or even in all other sense out there) throw her legs around your neck and playfully ask for a ride. Try this one out and this should work!

All the very best!

kurofuji wrote:

@ Superlinka - Your second method is very effective!!

It has worked twice for me before.

Yep! It is very effective but the drawback is, you need to have a good relationship built first. Both the above stated methods don't work on strangers (with the second one more specifically).

For me it worked twice. Once I was asked to carry around and once I was just locked between the legs and she didn't let me escape (was just a fun game)

We should devise proper strategies to approach strangers and get/give rides to them. Working on it!