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Hey everyone, I'm new here so let me say hi to everyone! this site is amazing. But I need some advice - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now and I'm trying to figure out a way to get her on my shoulders besides going to a festival or some other outdoor activity. Once while watching a movie together on her sofa, instead of me resting my head on her lap, she insisted that I lay my head between her legs, they were soft as cushions so I fell asleep. So I don't think it would be that hard to put her up, I just don;t know how to do it without her knowing that it really excites me. My ex-girlfriend was real light in weight and I'd always pick her up because of it but I don't think she liked heights much. But present girlfriend is a little heavier and I think she could be sensitive about her weight. any advice?
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I too, like everybody else, do not have all the answers nor do I know everything, but know that she is far more willing to shoulder ride you if she feels safe and comfortable while shoulder riding, and enjoys shoulder riding you. So you must do all you can to help her to feel safe and comfortable and to enjoy doing this. She is more likely to enjoy shoulder riding you if doing this gives her erotic or romantic feelings towards you and she knows that you enjoy being shoulder ridden versus feeling unhappy to be shoulder ridden.
So what if she knows that shoulder riding you excites you? If she cares that you are happy and knows that shoulder riding you pleases you she will enjoy shoulder riding you more and do that more. She may care less about her weight if she knows that is not a problem for you. Possibly she already fantasizes shoulder riding you which is why she had you rest your head between her legs but she is afraid you will be upset about being asked to shoulder carry her given her weight.
If I were in your place, I would tell her that I would like very much to give her shoulder rides and ask how she feels about it. I would also ask her what would make her feel safe and comfortable and gives her joy to do this. If she told me what would make her feel safe and comfortable and gives her joy to do this, I would offer to do all of that. If she accepted the offer, I would give her such a shoulder ride to the best of my ability. After the ride I would try to reward her in a way that is rewarding for her. If she is like one lady I know she will like long sweet kisses on her lips and on her neck as well as shoulder massages, back rubs, and to be waited on.
If all indications are that she loved the shoulder ride then you want to teach her how to reward you, if she does not seem to know yet. Maybe you want her to hug you, rub her hands through your hair, massage your shoulders, or give you sweet long kisses.
You know the situation better than I and will have to decide for yourself what to do. Best of luck to you.
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Welcome Rideon!
I once introduced one of (ex) girlfriends to sr by asking her to help me change a light bulb. I have quite high roofs in my house, so I either need to stand on a chair to change the light bulbs in my living room or I have to lift someone up.
I actually still use this trick. I have a broken light bulb that I screw in whenever I think the time is right for some shoulder riding. With some women it has worked, with some not.
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I THINK THAT IF YOU LET HER SIT ON YOUR SHOULDERS WHILE SITTING ON A COUCH WHILE WATCHING TV, SHE WOULD GET USED TO HAVING YOUR NECK BETWEEN HER THIGHS AND HER BALANCING HER WEIGHT ON YOUR SHOULDERS!
THIS WOULD GIVE HER MORE CONFIDENCE, AND MAYBE ONE DAY SOON SHE WOULD NOT FEEL SO FRIGHTENED BEING ON YOUR SHOULDERS WHILE STANDING UP!!! CANT HURT, GIVE IT A TRY! LET US KNOW HOW SHE MADE OUT!!
DICK
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