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Congratulations on your message!
Rest assured, none of us will exclude you because we are excluded too; for example, we can't talk openly about our fantasies because we would be seen as weird or sick.
I hope you find human horses in the UK, whether native or foreign.
I love your honesty, but certain activities must be performed by people of legal age, and you'll have to wait if you're not yet.
In the LGBT+ community, we are the plus symbol, those of us who love riding on shoulders or backs, whether on two or four legs; because, as I said, we are considered weird.
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tysm for the kind words! yess it's so sad to be excluded and ostracised from everything! piggyback rides and shoulder rides should be a basic human right though! 💅 have you met anyone on the site and had any memorable rides? people here are for sure lying abt their height bc why is everyone like 5 ft 10 or over LOL
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ohhh i didn't know fetishes were part of the community? what legal activities do you mean? would someone not be able to give a teen if they were 16 or 17?
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urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
ohhh i didn't know fetishes were part of the community? what legal activities do you mean? would someone not be able to give a teen if they were 16 or 17?
Yeah, there's definitely an element of fetish with shoulder riding/lift and carry for a lot of people, although not for everyone.
You're in the UK and the age of consent is 16 over here so legally you'd be fine doing whatever, but a lot of older people might still feel uncomfortable arranging to meet with someone who's under 18 even for non fetish lifting and carrying, especially in a private place.
As for your height question, I'm 6'3, I don't know about everyone else but maybe shoulder riding attracts tall people more?
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yayy im old enough! ohh i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it in public lol bc ppl would think it's weird
alsoo hehee guess what guyss,
your girl is officially takenn, there's a 6 ft 4 boy who wants me to be his training partner ahhh! he lives abroad thooo and while it's probably going to take time for us to meet and i'm not truly 'taken' i don't think I can ride anyone else lol bc I never get to go out except for school ![]()
I am literally so happy ahhh, he is so kind and he knows everything abt mee!😍 I'M STILL LIKE OMG IS THIS A DREAM, THERE'S A CUTE BOY WHO'S 6 FT 4 AND WANTS ME TO BE HIS TRAINING PARTNER? ARE U FOR REALLLL BRO?
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loll am i the only 'boy' here who has normal height
) UGH I'M SO EXCITEDD BRO I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABT HIM LOL HE'S LITERALLY THE BESTT, HOW AM I GONNA SURVIVE UNTIL WE MEET? edit - my first post is so cringeyy helpp
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Just like in Second Life, we are all Giants and Giantesses! XD
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
tysm for the kind words! yess it's so sad to be excluded and ostracised from everything! piggyback rides and shoulder rides should be a basic human right though! 💅 have you met anyone on the site and had any memorable rides? people here are for sure lying abt their height bc why is everyone like 5 ft 10 or over LOL
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I think people can be ridden according to their physical capacity; for example, a 70-kilogram male shouldn't be lifting and carrying another 120-kilogram male, for example.
Regarding people who are under the legal age, it's common to see daughters riding on their fathers' shoulders, and nieces riding on their uncles' shoulders; these scenes even bring tender smiles.
I think there's nothing wrong with that; however, pedophilia is reprehensible.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
ohhh i didn't know fetishes were part of the community? what legal activities do you mean? would someone not be able to give a teen if they were 16 or 17?
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Is 16 years of age the minimum age of consent in the United Kingdom? So urfavtransgirlxo wouldn't have any problem riding on shoulders in that country. I repeat, to ride on shoulders.
LewLifts wrote:
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
ohhh i didn't know fetishes were part of the community? what legal activities do you mean? would someone not be able to give a teen if they were 16 or 17?
Yeah, there's definitely an element of fetish with shoulder riding/lift and carry for a lot of people, although not for everyone.
You're in the UK and the age of consent is 16 over here so legally you'd be fine doing whatever, but a lot of older people might still feel uncomfortable arranging to meet with someone who's under 18 even for non fetish lifting and carrying, especially in a private place.
As for your height question, I'm 6'3, I don't know about everyone else but maybe shoulder riding attracts tall people more?
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Congratulations! Take care of yourself.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
yayy im old enough! ohh i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it in public lol bc ppl would think it's weird
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alsoo hehee guess what guyss,
your girl is officially takenn, there's a 6 ft 4 boy who wants me to be his training partner ahhh! he lives abroad thooo and while it's probably going to take time for us to meet and i'm not truly 'taken' i don't think I can ride anyone else lol bc I never get to go out except for school
I am literally so happy ahhh, he is so kind and he knows everything abt mee!😍 I'M STILL LIKE OMG IS THIS A DREAM, THERE'S A CUTE BOY WHO'S 6 FT 4 AND WANTS ME TO BE HIS TRAINING PARTNER? ARE U FOR REALLLL BRO?
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Just be you.
There are three proverbs in Spanish: "Figs fall when they are ripe," "Marriage and shroud come down from heaven," and "Sit at the door of your house and you will see the corpse of your enemy pass by." They all point out that everything has its time and you shouldn't rush it; you should be patient because everything will work out.
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Oooh thank you so muchh! I like those proverbs! I think it's important to always stay hopeful and never lose hope! I like this chinese proverb that conveys exactly that! 'Having arrived at the end of the river the heart is not dead'
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Have you ever had rides through the site? what happened when u did and how did u feel?
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LOLL literally no one at school probably wants me to ride on their shoulders lol! In Physical Education some boys gave rides to others and it would kind of make me jealous bc it was arousing lol. Anywayy like everyone knew abt me being gay and stuff soo I don't think they would have asked if I wanted to join but omg once someone actually offered and I said no bc EVERYONE was watching, like if he said it when we were alone I probably would have said yes, but then he might have told everyone he gave me a ride lol. Then I kind of regretted it but not anymore lol and also ppl at school are too hyperactive which isn't good for my ADHD
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I've rarely been ridden, my friend.
I hope you, riding because you are a rider, will have many more experiences riding than I have being ridden.
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Time will tell, my friend, time will tell.
Don't rush, don't skip steps.
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Mods, just step in and stop this shit of this so called "15+" person. Sounds real fishy. Sounds just the way you would expect a decoy to talk to lure men into doing something stupid, this "15+" is likely some decoy of some youtube predator catching group, trying to make money $$$ - you can always this person to come back when they are legally 18.
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caballito wrote:
Is 16 years of age the minimum age of consent in the United Kingdom? So urfavtransgirlxo wouldn't have any problem riding on shoulders in that country. I repeat, to ride on shoulders.
LewLifts wrote:
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
ohhh i didn't know fetishes were part of the community? what legal activities do you mean? would someone not be able to give a teen if they were 16 or 17?
Yeah, there's definitely an element of fetish with shoulder riding/lift and carry for a lot of people, although not for everyone.
You're in the UK and the age of consent is 16 over here so legally you'd be fine doing whatever, but a lot of older people might still feel uncomfortable arranging to meet with someone who's under 18 even for non fetish lifting and carrying, especially in a private place.
As for your height question, I'm 6'3, I don't know about everyone else but maybe shoulder riding attracts tall people more?
caballito, I think you're not understanding this. They all say they are 15+ to be allowed on the site. They start talking via private messaging to men stupid enough to message them, soon they start begging for the men to show up, offer to ride their shoulders nude and whatever, then last minute after they've hooked you in nicely, they say "i'm only 15"...and if the man still shows up (still the man's fault not trying to say otherwise), his life is ruined. the cops, cameras all waiting for him.
These predator catching groups are all over youtube...seacrh skeeter jean, trilogy media, Omma....they make their money from youtube views, subs and the decoys are paid by these youtubers thousands for every man they catch.
The OP will probably reply to me saying I'm crazy or something, but you've been warned. Pursue "her" at your own risk.
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umm bruh I am literally speechless! I put 15+ bc I'm not 18 and I don't want people to know if im 15,16 or 17 lol andd umm what I don't even know what op means and I am not trying to expose anyone omg u can't just accuse ppl of stuff and umm wth I would not do it 'nude' are u being fr? I would just wear my normal clothes like t shirt and flared jeans and I've never even heard of these exposing channels honest to god I am literally a normal girl 😤😒🤦♀️I almost died when I saw this reply oh my god I AM NOT SOME DECOY PERSON LIKE WHATT I LITERALLY HAVE ADHD, CAN HARDLY TALK TO PPL IRL I WOULD NOT SIGN UP FOR SMTH LIKE THAT!
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That's right!
Either the aforementioned people play with people their own age, or relatives who form their close circle.
There's no way we could play with them, given that we have people of legal age around us.
NY male wrote:
Mods, just step in and stop this shit of this so called "15+" person. Sounds real fishy. Sounds just the way you would expect a decoy to talk to lure men into doing something stupid, this "15+" is likely some decoy of some youtube predator catching group, trying to make money $$$ - you can always this person to come back when they are legally 18.
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I've always tried to act with great respect, thank you very much NY MALE for your warning.
NY male wrote:
caballito wrote:
Is 16 years of age the minimum age of consent in the United Kingdom? So urfavtransgirlxo wouldn't have any problem riding on shoulders in that country. I repeat, to ride on shoulders.
LewLifts wrote:
Yeah, there's definitely an element of fetish with shoulder riding/lift and carry for a lot of people, although not for everyone.
You're in the UK and the age of consent is 16 over here so legally you'd be fine doing whatever, but a lot of older people might still feel uncomfortable arranging to meet with someone who's under 18 even for non fetish lifting and carrying, especially in a private place.
As for your height question, I'm 6'3, I don't know about everyone else but maybe shoulder riding attracts tall people more?caballito, I think you're not understanding this. They all say they are 15+ to be allowed on the site. They start talking via private messaging to men stupid enough to message them, soon they start begging for the men to show up, offer to ride their shoulders nude and whatever, then last minute after they've hooked you in nicely, they say "i'm only 15"...and if the man still shows up (still the man's fault not trying to say otherwise), his life is ruined. the cops, cameras all waiting for him.
These predator catching groups are all over youtube...seacrh skeeter jean, trilogy media, Omma....they make their money from youtube views, subs and the decoys are paid by these youtubers thousands for every man they catch.
The OP will probably reply to me saying I'm crazy or something, but you've been warned. Pursue "her" at your own risk.
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The laws protect people who may be at risk, including those under the legal age.
In one of my previous posts, I wrote: "I love your honesty, but certain activities must be carried out by adults, and you'll have to wait if you're not yet."
You can play with your close relatives; you see parents carrying their children on their shoulders on the streets, for example; you can also play with friends your own age.
But you shouldn't play with strangers, especially those of legal age, because you don't know their intentions.
Be patient, and wait a few years because time flies; you'll have grandchildren in the blink of an eye.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
umm bruh I am literally speechless! I put 15+ bc I'm not 18 and I don't want people to know if im 15,16 or 17 lol andd umm what I don't even know what op means and I am not trying to expose anyone omg u can't just accuse ppl of stuff and umm wth I would not do it 'nude' are u being fr? I would just wear my normal clothes like t shirt and flared jeans and I've never even heard of these exposing channels honest to god I am literally a normal girl 😤😒🤦♀️I almost died when I saw this reply oh my god I AM NOT SOME DECOY PERSON LIKE WHATT I LITERALLY HAVE ADHD, CAN HARDLY TALK TO PPL IRL I WOULD NOT SIGN UP FOR SMTH LIKE THAT!
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tyy caballito! anyway I am just a normal kind hearted girl I'm not like MissBaron or Passion lol I literally do not want to hurt anyone or make them so exhausted or dehumanise them too far (I mean if they want me to treat them like a horse not a human, then that's their choice) oml also the post I made was sooo embarrassingggg omggg can everyone ignore the embarrassing bits tysm *does a uwu cat nya daiski owo face* heheee <33 :33
^w^ (sorry did some pick me japanese emoticons, sorry not sorry!)
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oh but I thought 16 was the legal age in UK? So couldn't people do it? I do have cousins my age but too shy to ask them LOL also they'll make fun of me! oo idk abt grandchildren loll like who would want to marry me but idm being alone forever ![]()
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You have the option to edit your messages, or even delete them.
There are bad people out there who can hurt you; always be wary and don't expose yourself.
Love your family and stay close to them, because your relatives are your first protectors.
I suggest you evaluate the steps you take in the future and stay focused on your studies, your career, and your future job.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
tyy caballito! anyway I am just a normal kind hearted girl I'm not like MissBaron or Passion lol I literally do not want to hurt anyone or make them so exhausted or dehumanise them too far (I mean if they want me to treat them like a horse not a human, then that's their choice) oml also the post I made was sooo embarrassingggg omggg can everyone ignore the embarrassing bits tysm *does a uwu cat nya daiski owo face* heheee <33 :33
^w^ (sorry did some pick me japanese emoticons, sorry not sorry!)
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thank youuu! I will try to stay close to my familyy. Alsoo if anyone tries being mean to me i'm gonna tell Ayumu- chan from Aiscream and also YAOSOBI who sang choco minto and trust me u don't wanna mess with 3 japanese asian queens UwUU and no more accusing me of things and being toxic NYMale bc I don't want to keep doing this online battle
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The legal age of adulthood in the UK is 18. However, there are different ages for certain activities, as LewLifts gave as an example.
You should lean on your family and focus on your future.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
oh but I thought 16 was the legal age in UK? So couldn't people do it? I do have cousins my age but too shy to ask them LOL also they'll make fun of me! oo idk abt grandchildren loll like who would want to marry me but idm being alone forever
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Take good care of yourself and don't let strangers get close to you. Enjoy your age and its activities, including listening to music and dancing.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
thank youuu! I will try to stay close to my familyy. Alsoo if anyone tries being mean to me i'm gonna tell Ayumu- chan from Aiscream and also YAOSOBI who sang choco minto and trust me u don't wanna mess with 3 japanese asian queens UwUU and no more accusing me of things and being toxic NYMale bc I don't want to keep doing this online battle
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thank youuu! I actually love listening to jpop, cpop and kpop loll aswell as normal songs hehe and I did a singing voice message to the boy who's training partner I am now heheeeeeee!
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Be happy and love your family.
urfavtransgirlxo wrote:
thank youuu! I actually love listening to jpop, cpop and kpop loll aswell as normal songs hehe and I did a singing voice message to the boy who's training partner I am now heheeeeeee!
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urfavtransgirlxo:
Your post caught my attention and I found you rather unique .
I travel in some rather "kinky" circles but I don't know very many transgender people and most of those I have encountered tend to be male to female trans and assume the submissive role, which I find insulting as a natural born female.
Your confession of dominance , especially over stronger males is more in line with my feminine supremacy views for many reasons.
I personally don't like piggyback rides if other ways of being carried and served are available, but that is just a matter of taste. I think it would be amusing to encounter a transgender who enjoys coercing and dominating males into serving her even as a beast of burden and learn how else you use those that you gain power over .
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Wow!
Strong words, but sincere.
Lady, I envy those under your rule.
MissBaron wrote:
urfavtransgirlxo:
Your post caught my attention and I found you rather unique .
I travel in some rather "kinky" circles but I don't know very many transgender people and most of those I have encountered tend to be male to female trans and assume the submissive role, which I find insulting as a natural born female.
Your confession of dominance , especially over stronger males is more in line with my feminine supremacy views for many reasons.
I personally don't like piggyback rides if other ways of being carried and served are available, but that is just a matter of taste. I think it would be amusing to encounter a transgender who enjoys coercing and dominating males into serving her even as a beast of burden and learn how else you use those that you gain power over .
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omgg whatt it's the famous MissBaron! Ooooouuhh I don't really have a preference too lol like once my cousin who is like 26 kept picking me up and wanting to use me as a weight and making me sit on him while he did push ups and it was funny but a bit awkward for me xD. Oooh I don't think I would force or coerce someone lol like it's just not in my heart or my nature like if someone is tired then I would let them rest lol. I personally think I enjoy being the person who has no choice but to conform to the carrier's desires and be carried however they want to and having to stay on them for ages if they want or they are trying to show off to me lol. Personally I would probably scream alot and have to try hard not to scream in their ear but I scream alot when I am enjoying something not just when I am scared hehe.
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urfavtransgirlxo:
I would prefer not to direct you in your role as a woman or a rider. And while you prefer not to coerce (or attempt to force) carriers ,I fail to understand why refer to yourself as dominant when it seems that you only even sit on carriers when they force or coerce you.
One of the advantages as well as the fun of being a woman is to use your power of seduction to be served by men.
This doesn't need to be cruel or vindictive of course but it does exerting control and taking charge at least occasionally.
The carrier /underling should serve you at least at some expense to himself regardless of how you choose to ride him.
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@MissBaron
Boundless admiration and total approval to You, Dear MissBaron !
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equidum:
Thank you for the approval and I hope you agree that submissive, especially male submissive, should sacrifice at least some of their comfort for their mistresses' or master's whims, amusement or requirements. Whatever service the underling performs should be at some cost to the underling and not just some fulfilment of the underling's own desires.
As in the case of urfavtransgirlxo who accepted being used as little more than a weight while sitting on her older cousin's back, urfavtransgirlxo was being used to her cousin's advantage for him to exercise or satisfy his fetish.
In urfavtransgirlxo new role as a trans woman, I find it demeaning to women , whether biological or transitional women , to submit to a male underling at no cost to him and to the male's advantage.
Sitting on his back is of course perfectly fine if she (urfavtransgirlxo) enjoys doing so and or initiates this action, but the one beneath her should be required to experience strain or even some discomfort, and only relieved of that discomfort at her leisure and amusement.
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Oooh loll umm well like if the person wants me to stay on him for ages until he is tired or he feels strained then I would lol 😅. I think my cousin wanted to show off to me or something lol but I enjoyed it loll I was like 'oouuhh can I go now' bc even though I was enjoying it I was scared my uncle/ his dad would catch us and his dad literally caught him carrying me piggyback once it was so embarrassing bc I tried to get off him but he wouldn't let me bc he was holding onto my leg lol so maybe he didn't want me to get off? idk why he likes giving me it lol but anyway my uncle told him not to and he hasn't given me since and I'll jump the gun and say my actual age I've just turned 17 so I was 15 when this happened 😅.
There's something.. satisfying, exciting, amusing and domineering about... like exerting a bit of power on the person and maybe giving them a bit of strain but I think it's dangerous to take it too far and idk whip them or smth if they want to rest or never get off them bc u don't want them to get shoulder/ back problems that could be long term. I think it's fun for me to be used to someone's advantage somewhat like if someone was doing a 10 minute athletic challenge or something and they wanted to carry me and run or something then umm I would let them bc it's fun hehe! OwO but if anyone tries to be a sussy baka then I'll use my pepper spray (LOL I DON'T EVEN HAVE ONE BUT I PROBABLY WILL BUY ONE WHEN I'M OLDER HEHE 😈).
I think there could be a danger though in letting just anyone pick you up and carry u wherever they want like once they're holding onto your legs in like a shoulder ride or piggyback or smth even if u want to get off u can't until they let u like especially if they're grip is like a vice then omg what will u do and they could like kidnap you and never let you go like oml soooo I would probably only let people that I trust carry me and I trust the boy (man really I should say) who wants me to be his training partner lol.
Umm like I wouldn't mind being evil for the day being like 'mwahaha i'm not getting of you' ; LOLL I COULD NEVER THOO IM TOO SOFT HEARTED AHH; anyway I'm going to go watch some anime now hehe has anyone seen kpop demon hunters it's SOO GOODDD and sorry i'm so annoying and simply and pick me lol anyways byee
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urfavtransgirlxo:
Yes you could be helpless being carried piggy back or even sitting on someone's shoulders. That's one of the reasons it's much better for the rider to be in charge and for you to establish your authority over the cousin or whoever is carrying you.
Much like when you're riding a horse, you are in charge as long as you're sitting on him and your carrier , regardless of his demeaner is almost certainly attracted to your feminine persona and willing to yield to feminine authority since he demonstrated his desire to impress you and used by you in carrying you and having you sit on his back while he performed push-ups.
Most men these days are conditioned by society and sometimes their own mothers to bend to the will of women. It isn't cruel for women to take advantage of men even if just for her own enjoyment and happiness.
Pushing a man to exertion or exhaustion can improve his physicality and endurance and there is no reason that you shouldn't enjoy pushing him toward that outcome. He won't die while he's carrying you or while you're sitting on him while he performs pushups and it's better if you stay on his back and push him past exhaustion when he would rather quit.
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oooh ok I will think about it and maybe do it and some people like experiencing discomfort or pain when carrying LOL idk why masochists like it lol but anyway I will become evil Pomni for the day hehe. What if someone calls the police on you if u don't get off lol
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urfavtransgirlxo:
Since you are very close to my weight (133lbs) and only a little taller I can almost promise you that you won't kill your cousin or most other men by sitting on him or pushing his limits in carrying you.
Being at least a little sadistic is fun for many more women than you might imagine and as long as you don't carry it to far you might very well enjoy having fun at a masochistic man's expense.
I can tell you with a great deal of certainty that he won't call the police and humiliate himself in confessing that a smaller trans-girl was sitting on his back and wouldn't get off
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I don't think so either! Your horse might even get a little stubborn, but certainly not to seriously throw you off, but because you should ride him properly. If he's a bit of a masochist, like many human horses, he'll probably prefer a slightly rougher pace anyway; he likes that. After a ride, he'll stroke his "tracks" with a great deal of erotic feeling, think of his rider, and keep you in pleasant memories.
Who knows... maybe he'll even ask you to ride "through hell" with him again.
Max
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urfavtransgirlxo: and Max:
Max is quite correct.
When a man consents or requests that you ride him or carry you, he has already submitted to letting you have control, even though it's only implied and not stated.
Even a masochist man will try to retain some of his macho type image ,but secretly wanting to also yield to being used.
One example I can give you from my personal experience is a guy I refer to as Handyman who loves having me ride him to near exhaustion sometimes. Handyman is 25 years older than I am and I have often sat on his back and refused to get off when he was literally to exhausted to dislodge me. The more demanding I am while sitting on him , the more he submits. I don't otherwise abuse him though I could if I felt like doing so and I know he would never consider complaining to anyone or even admit to his fetish.
I think your cousin would probably do the same since admitting his pseudo homosexual relationship with you would possibly be humiliating for him. This factor could make it easier for you to take control of him and have him endure if not crave having you completely dominate him.
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woww loll what does 'ride through hell' mean? is it like riding someone roughly or really hard lol. I think it might be fun being carried by a masochistic man and I wouldn't feel too bad being a little rough if I know it turns him on and he enjoys it hehehe soooo funn!
OOUH maybe I might ask my cousin for another ride but he will want to be careful so his dad doesn't catch him lol bc as I said before his dad thought it was rlly silly and weird lol he was like 'no more giving piggybacks to me'
Oooh last time I checked I was actually 9 stone but probably less now bc I do light yoga and pilates and feminising exercises that can enhance me and I have also been drinking matcha for ages because I enjoy it hehe. Woww 25 yrs older than u is alot? Is Handyman really strong and tall? Could u give his measurements if u wouldn't mind like height, weight. He seems quite strong to carry someone as he must be in his 40s or 50s assuming ur in ur 20s. If I keep doing yoga and stuff I will probably get underweight but oh well! atleast I will be rlly light for the carriers!😅🤣
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This weird "writing" is too silly for me, I'm withdrawing; my nerves can't take it!
Max
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urfavtransgirlxo:
I don't know what a 'ride through hell' means but I imagine it would be something different between every rider and carrier in the cases we are talking about.
There are some extreme masochist and sadist in the world who would do thing and crave things you would probably never consider.
As for you asking your cousin for a ride again and his father' objections, I might assume that the father suspects that you're gay and that your cousin might be, though I might suggest that your cousin is a legal adult and should make up his own mind. Of course you could just follow your fetish where the father simply won't discover your activities.
Since you weigh 9 stone (126 lbs.) I doubt you would be a great burden to anyone carrying you piggyback. I have been carried that way many times even though I don't like being carried that way. sitting on his back while he does push-ups would be harder for him obviously but could be more fun for you if you have the right attitude.
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I think people in my family suspect i'm gay but they aren't sure lol! Ooh I feel like it would be fun to learn the right attitude and adopt it even for a day especially if the person likes it then I would also try my best to fulfil them and make them happy also!
I was also a bit confused about what it means but I think it would mean something fun hehe
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urfavtransgirlxo:
Several of my gay male friends have told me that their families and friends knew they were gay even before the guys knew it themselves. I think that since you are transexual, your feminine nature would be more obvious to those around you than if you were just gay and liked males.
One transexual I used to be very close to was very fond of lingerie and his/her mother discovered his collection six months before she/he knew about the discovery.
I think that if you feel like being female you might as well embrace it. Eventually you have to "come out" anyway .
Since you expressed a interest in riding on shoulders and getting piggyback rides from guys, you might have to choose the kind of guys who are right for you.
All relationships consist of dominant and submissive partners and they are never really equal. You will either have to yield power or assume it .If you assume that power you will dominate him , even selfishly or yield it to being used.
You will know which way to go when you find the right guy.
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ooouuh wow I think that is actually true! For example when I was 11 - 12 I was watching these roblox stories and I really liked the intro music and my family was like 'stop listening to the intro because it's so gay' and I was like 'huh' and that was before I realised I was gay which was when I was 13 I think and before that I was never really attracted to anyone until I was attracted to the person sitting next to me in English lol! Also at school some people were VERY weird and asked if I wanted a boyfriend or girlfriend and I was/ still am quite non verbal at school lol! It's hard for me to walk 'properly' when I go out because I naturally take small steps and I try to take 'normal' regular strides to stop people looking at me but it's like I forget how to walk properly and I always feel anxious seeing men/ women in the street and wondering if they will notice bc of how I walk and also bc I always hold a fidget in my hand!
Oooh I am not sure how to choose which guys are right for me? what guys are right for you? ALSO I'M TYPING THIS AT JAIL/SCHOOL AHH. Thank you soo muchh! I hope I will know which way to go hehe!
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urfavtransgirlxo:
I couldn't possibly suggest what kind of guy would suit your nature since I obviously don't know you beyond what you have said here.
I would suggest that you shop around and decide for yourself whether you want to lead in the relationship or be lead.
The few trans-girls I have known usually hooked up long term with guys who were gay but pretended to be bisexual. My understanding is that that is often the case and that some gay men are complexly repulsed by anything feminine.
It's true that people can often tell if a guy is gay by the way he walks. I know I can tell even from a block away. You are YOU! you should accept yourself and you should learn to not be concerned about what others think .
Since you asked, I choose men who are submissive most of the time but sometimes I find guys who have just a submissive streak and are a challenge to break down and dominate.
For me it's like a cowboy breaking a horse to the saddle until the beast accepts someone sitting on his back. This is metaphorical of course but I think you understand the concept.
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Oooh thank you so much for sharing! please could you say how you can notice by how someone walks? is it because they take small steps perhaps or they are looking around alot or seem shy? I feel like when riding sometimes I would like to suggest how I want to be carried and other times I would let the guy carryme for however long he wants and take me anywhere hehe. Thanks so muchh I'm always able to embrace myself at home but I find it hard to know how to act outside maybe due to being neurodiverse
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