Ultimate shoulder rides

RidingBlonde · 2006-12-05 21:13:00

We're in New York for the holidays and I'm glad to see that tights and boots are very much in fashion these days, because I LOVE wearing tights and boots, partly because, frankly, I enjoy showing off my well-proportioned gymnast's build, but especially because it's a perfect outfit to wear for shoulder rides outdoors in cold weather. I had the great pleasure of watching the tree lighting in at Lincoln Center recently from my favorite spot in the world: mounted astride the shoulders of the man I love, wearing black tights and cowboy boots. I'm so lucky that that riding his shoulders is where he wants me to be, every chance we get.

I don't really understand why there seem to be so few women in the club, or why we seem so hear very seldom from those who are. I know that plenty of men are turned on by carrying a female rider, especially if she is skillful and perhaps even more so if they are aware that she's stimulated by the experience and grateful to them for providing that excitement. But that's just it. Riding can be SO stimulating for a woman I'm surprised that so few women seem to acknowledge it, and when they do, it's often in the context of domination, not the simple, exquisite pleasure of mounting astride a strong, willing male and feeling his neck and torso high and tight between our thighs and legs. For example, I'm sure many of the male club members have carried girls at rock concerts and been very much aware of how erotic it was for their riders. Am I mistaken? Lots of guys seem to have been happy to give me rides, which I count as my good luck. Where are all the girls who find those rides as exciting as I do?

As always, my sincere thanks to Nick and his colleagues for making this club possible, and my best wishes to everybody for the holidays.

Liz

peater · 2006-12-06 00:45:08

its really rare to find women in any type of fetish type forum!

Nick · 2006-12-06 09:51:11

Hi Liz, Peater,

Well, I can just agree... I see it as one of our main objectives here to attract more female members. And yes, no doubt, women can indeed be turned on by riding a man's shoulders. Hopefully some of these women will find their way to this community.

Liz, I wonder, when you were watching the tree lighting in at Lincoln Center, in what way did the shoulder riding come into effect, just for fun, light pleasure or something more intensive, compared to your more private shoulder rides? How is, in your perspective, a shoulder ride in public compared to private?

Nick

RidingBlonde · 2006-12-07 18:58:20

Dear Nick,

That's an interesting question. I think the biggest difference between public shoulder rides and private ones (ignoring for the moment what the rider is wearing, or isn't), has to do with movement. For me, even riding quite still while looking over the heads of a crowd, which I can't do if I'm standing on the ground, is wonderfully exciting. But if my "horse" and I are moving around the stimulation is a lot more dramatic. One reason I like riding at rock concerts, even if I don't think much of the music, is that it's perfectly normal to move to the beat, which makes the experience more erotic. I'm sure you've noticed girls moving their hips as the ride in time to the music at concerts, often with the encouragement and active assistance of the guys they are riding. Perhaps you've carried girls at concerts and been clearly aware of their enthusiasm while they ride your shoulders. I think that we girls have an anatomical advantage over guys. We can get really aroused without showing it, although it sometimes takes a little concentration. Incidentally, I always appreciate the nice compliment when men I don't even know invite me to ride them at concerts or in chicken fight tournaments, either because they like the way I look or, as they sometimes say quite clearly, they like watching the way I ride.

With best wishes,

Liz

ponyxwoman · 2006-12-08 23:25:55

Ciao Friends

With your permission, I would to express some my toughts regarding why (seems) there are few women riding men. Some of these reflections I have already express in past time.

- Women don't refuse to ride men. There are infinite pics that demonstrate this. If opportune event happens, girls go on men's shoulders.
- Men like to be ridden by female genre. There are are many reasons: strength demonstration, fun, excitation, etc
- Why women want ride men? The public examples given by pics we see are: men raise them (man force woman to ride him), fun (parties), commodity (easy chair or easy way to go around for concerts, parade, etc), love relations with boyfrieds, activities where is necessary (cheerleaders, chickenfights, ecc), etc
- For nearly all women is not a important matter to ride men. I.e.: shopping in important, jewels are important, coiffer is important, children are important, etc. The ride is a very short parenthesis, very fun, but episodes.
- We men are mainly responsible to do the shoulderride attractive to women. Why a woman must ride us if we carry her like a bag? According to you, why a woman must go at 1.7 meters from ground, terrified to fall? Thus we must do the ride easy for her, and give her safety and confidence, i.e. what a woman seek in we men. We must be strongly, and avoid to carry girls if we not have strenght. We must to yield control to her. And we must endure: I dont think a woman will have fun from 3 min of shoulderride. And in these there are not dominance. If a our girlfriend have experienced that we can give her a 30 min of shoulderrides without any difficulties and with easy and control to her, is probable she will go on our shoulders in the future.
- The women's regret to discuss in forums is due, perhaps, to their natural shyness to discuss of intimate questions: if they have discovered some sexual pleasure to do shoulderrides, can be they would not discuss of this. Can be this shoulderride matter have a 'dirt' side (domination, etc). I don't knows, but I respect this decision. Or perhaps majority of women not have still discovered this other source of pleasure.

Best regards
ponyxwoman

louie_sr · 2006-12-09 06:06:23

Thanks Genny for your statement! I mostly agree especially in the opinion that women have to feel safe up on shoulders and that they have to be able to rely on the men that they can carry them easily.

Louie

Nick · 2006-12-09 10:21:33

Yes, thanks Gennyshark/Ponyxwoman for sharing your thoughts. I agree that there must be a certain safety and duration until a woman can start really enjoying it. All of this I'm sure Liz can agree with.

Thanks Liz for your reply on private vs. public shoulder ride perspectives. Concert shoulder rides are the ones that fascinate and excite me the most.

RidingBlonde · 2006-12-09 19:22:05

I agree completely. Actually it's fun being high in the air when you're only 5'1", but except in a swimming pool, where falling is not dangerous, I like to ride strong, stable, enthusiastic "horses" whose stamina and ability to carry me safely and share the pleasure with me are never in doubt. I imagine that other women feel the same way. At least, experienced riders don't have any reason to squeal in fear when they know they're perfectly safe on their partners' shoulders. And rock concerts, especially on the beach (the skin-to-skin contact, riding bare shoulders in a bikini, is a big plus), can really be exciting if the only danger is going deaf because the music is so loud.

Liz

Nick · 2006-12-10 10:18:16

Hi Liz. I recommend that you use these during concert shoulder riding:
http://www.apoteket.se/intershoproot/eCS/Store/sv/pictures/200509s.jpg (New Window)

RidingBlonde · 2006-12-10 19:02:12

Hi Nick,

You betcha. Thanks for the tip! Roger and I have similar flanged ear plugs with a ceramic base, and we carry around with us. They're made for musicians, and attenuate the sound without affecting the tone quality. Unfortunately they don't also affect the quality of the music or the performance, which would sometimes be a useful feature.

Tina · 2009-02-02 08:09:01

Liz, I agree with you, riding in tights feels always better than in jeans, in wintertime must have warm clothes. Bikinies on is good, skin against skin feels wonderful. Still I like personality wear sexy underwear under skirt, I like much sexy lingerie, long stockings are sexy too and corset is hot. That's why riding skirt on is sexy for me. Have you ever rode in long skirt? I like that way the most because it looks "innocent" and I can wear sexy underwear, nobody knows if you have no nickers under skirt and that gives "warm waves" and gives much pleasure, especially dancing on shoulders. It is fact, you can enjoy most if man is strong and you can relax and count on him he don't drop you down and can carry you.

Tina

mastadon99 · 2009-02-02 22:03:30

This is a bit one sided-what does the rider wear?,Get it all dolled up-nice and warm-the rider is OK-but what about the most important part of the partnership-THE HORSE.
No horse no shoulder ride.
Any answers??

namaegaaru · 2009-02-03 01:21:21

The "horse" may decide. He may even decide to be a "horse" or not. For cold weather, layers of sweat shirts and pants make sense to me.

equidum · 2009-02-03 09:55:12

GOOD SHOES ! Good shoes is key for the donkey ! As for the rest .... Well, as little as possible, but, I agree that, when the weather is really cold, the donkey will need, for instance a sweat shirt and a warm "poler". That should be enough .... Walking, trotting, straining under heavy weight will keep him warm anyway .....

Oh ... I say "donkey" and not "horse", in an attempt to be somewhat realistic ... We DREAM that we can be horses, but at best, we may just try and compare with donkeys, as regards our carrying abilty .... To be totally honest, in order to be as strong as a donkey we would also need to ingest some wonder-drugs, like those Tour de France miracle substances ..... !!!! After all, why not ? It wouldn't be cheating, it would be just trying to overperform for our beloved ridresses' pleasure and comfort !!! GIVE ME E.P.O !!!!!!!

Equidum

Ladylifter · 2009-02-03 15:59:42

I was never a big fan of winter riding to tell the truth but a lot of my lifting of women when I was young happened in the winter so I just dealt with it. All those layers of clothing prevented you from getting a good feel of the woman while she was on your shoulders. In the summertime it was better to have a girl sit on your shoulders while she was wearing shorts or a swimsuit to caress her legs as she was seated up high!

equidum · 2009-02-03 16:59:48

you're right, Lafylifter ! That's why just a sweat-shirt and a thin "poler" are enough for the donkey !! Maybe already too much, but .... It is the riders' best interest to keep their donkeys in good health

Equidum

mastadon99 · 2009-02-04 00:03:41

Dont agre-we have just the worst smow in London for 18 years-I have just been ridden up the twopath of the Regents Canal in about 8 ins of snow-no wind ,bright sunshine.
Just had a pair of cords, a sweater and a jacket on-rider had a pair jeans,jumper and a jacket.
It was wonderful-nothing like it-you should try it sometime.

Ultimate shoulder rides

#1 2006-12-05 21:13:00

What to wear for winter riding, and a question

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