Ultimate shoulder rides

Hello Phantom:

Maybe your issue is already resolved but it appears at the time that you would have loved to give her shoulder rides and that she would have loved to receive them on a frequent basis but that you were both shy and fearfull of the consequences of asking. Afterall   she did once help herself onto your shoulders so you said. She probably noticed that it was the shoulder riding on television that caught your attention. Gals are very observant of what turns us guys  on and use these observations to control or influence the behavior of us guys. The worst that can happen is that she will refuse your offer to give her a shoulder ride. If she does refuse you can tell her that she is most welcome to request shoulder rides at better times for her in the future since her refusal may be due just to unfavorable circumstances at that time.  There is a phrase in the Bible that reads, "Ask and you shall receive." My experince is that "Ask and you receive sometimes  but ask never and receive never."  Sales people know this, get many refusals, and continue to keep asking for sales orders. I suspect if you have not offered yet and you do she will try to act cool like it is no big deal but in her heart she will be ecstatically thinking, "YES!"  If you succed in giving her such a ride you may want to let her know that you enjoyed doing that for her, would like to do this more in the future,  tell her she is most welcome to ask for more rides in the future, hug her and kiss her as a reward for proper behavior (Dogs needed to be petted as a reward; guys and gals need to be smiled at and hugged and kissed. It works on my wife. Body massages work too. Later, after and if, you marry your girlfriend, making love to her the was SHE likes it is also a highly effective reward. Don't rub your fingers through her hair so often. It messes her hair up which ladies tend to hate. What she likes is to be used as a reward. What she dislikes is a punisment. She on the other hand probably already hugs and kisses you and rubs her fingers through your hair to reward you for desired behavior.  Gals tend to excel at handling guys and gals and letting guys think that guys rule. Notice how a prominent lady informs all potential horses that she enjoys shoulder rides and appreciates being carried on shoulders? She also describes her attractive figure and the erotic feelings such rides give her which triggers guys' desires to be her horse. Notice that she also mentioned her occasional wearing of a thong bikini which also arouses a guy's desire to carry her?  Sometimes gals do rule. Guys tend to excel at athletics, combat, and technology.)

I envy you in that my wife will only tolerate being carried on my shoulders for about two minutes on a weekend but has yet to like it which is due partly to fear of falling eventhough I have her sit tall and straight with her crotch on the lower back of my neck  with her legs wrapped around my sides such that her feet are behind my back as a certain lady suggested. (I got my wife to tolerate it by associating it in her mind with making love to her the way she likes, body massaging her, helping her with the housework, waiting on her, by telling her that carrying her this way reminds me that I like to do these things for her.) Yes, at ages 51 and 56 shoulder riding is abnormal and strange but why do I have to honor others expectations to stop having fun just because I got old even though I am hurting nothing and nobody?

Wish you much luck.

No sir,

I definitely suggested making love to your lady IF and AFTER you marry her.  I still believe what my mother said about a man who truly loves a woman being able to wait till after he marrys her. I have only had sex with my wife and only after marrying  her. We have been married twenty-seven years to each other and to nobody else. I believe putting her on my shoulders when we were first dating was one of the things that got her romantically attracted to me.

I agree with what you too in that:

Shoulder riding does not have to be part of an attempt to seduce somebody into having sex. I gave such rides to my sister and a few other girls when we were children with no thought of having sex. I gave my sister who was fifteen months younger than me her last shoulder ride when she was in her thirties. When I was thirty-two I gave a  father-not-around seven year-old  neighbor girl, and play mate of my four year old son at the time, such a ride. I did it for the ladies' giggles of joy. Sex was definitely out of the question. I believe more gals of all ages would ride my and other guys' shoulders if nobody was concerned about sexual seduction and all the ramifications that follow it.  Shoulder riding is often very sexually arousing for normal adult heterosexual riders and bearers but so is the waltz,  fox trot, tango, salsa, etc.  for many and none of them have to be followed with having sex. Like many, I too can be teased, aroused, not have sex and still love it.  Many are this way which is why they can look at pornography or other erotic videos such as those involving shoulder riding on this web site, knowing they will never have sex with those in the pictures or videos, and still enjoy being aroused by them.

I too can enjoy this gift of love known as shoulder riding without so much sexual arousal.

My favorite video is  http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2427760121135443168  which shows a man giving this gift of love while singing

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something that makes the lady giggle with much pleasure and joy. (No, I am NOT the first to post this video on this website in case Vagelli or somebody else chooses to protest.)  It is true that there is some sexual attraction to this video also in that the lady is just plain hot and beautiful in my eyes and reminds me of a certain hottie that I have a crush on that one of my cousins is married to. But I also enjoy watching the video titled, "Equitation World Cup -2 Attempt" in this websites bit torrent download in the file labeled August 2006. This video shows a little girl practicing  precision horseback riding on a man's shoulders who could be her father. This ride is dramatized as purely being a gift of love. I enjoy gifts of pure love.

Since I enjoy shoulder rides being given as a gift of love, I detest such a gift of love being rewarded with some hateful sadistic action. However BDSM is part of shoulder riding and part of this website. As in the rest of life I have to sift out that which I desire from that which I do not.






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Thankyou. Same here.

Thankyou, Liz.

I could not communicate it better.

really hot, thanks and welcome.